Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Memories from Millrock- A Work in Progress

So, I really want to write a short book about my life.  So, if you follow my blog, suck it up!  I will post and update things as they are written.  I'm a very slow and reflective writer.  I was once told in college that I sucked at writing and that I should go back to HS.  LOL!  I also hate grammar.  Too many rules!  So I will apologize now for the horrible grammar.






Memories from Millrock

Often times when I tell stories of my childhood, people do not believe that I'm telling the truth.  If you were not born and raised in the cornfields of Iowa, especially a small town Iowa, it is hard to understand the close-knit bond that holds together people in small town Iowa.  As an adult, I had no idea how the people of my childhood would shape and mold me into the person I am today.  The phrase, "it takes a village to raise a child" is profoundly true in my life.  

I grew up in a small farming area outside of Baldwin, Iowa called Millrock.  Baldwin is small, but Millrock doesn't even show up on the map!  The google car didn't even trek this back road area.  Not much remains of this old country town but a few houses along a dusty gravel road and the old Millrock School House.  Describing Millrock is easy, yet difficult.  It is surrounded by rolling pastures, Bear Creek, and hilly corn fields.  If you listen at night in the summer, you can hear the howls of coyotes and the croaking of frogs.  Most evenings the sun sets over the hills and graces the skyline with the colors of the Heavens.  It is perfect in every way.  I didn't always see it this way, but after 33 years on this earth I see life quite differently.  

Chapter One:  Childhood Memories
Most children of the 1980's remember the basics:  Saturday morning cartoons, He-Man and She-Ra, and some of the best toys on earth.  My childhood included all these basic principles, but added a few twists.  I should first specify that I was a tomboy mutation.  I say mutation because I loved to explore and to get dirty, but I always preferred to wear a dress or prairie skirt while doing it.  I was like the Laura Ingalls Wilder of my neighborhood.  

When I go through my pictures of childhood I can verify the following 6 things:  
1.  Big plastic frames were cute
2.  Big hair was in
3.  I was destined for braces
4.  In 60% of the photos, I am wearing some sort of dress-up clothes or my Laura Ingalls Wilder bonnet.  
5.  I was super cool.  Hands-down.  ;)
6.  My parents sometimes dressed me in my brothers hand-me-downs.  (What girl doesn't want to wear a muscle shirt with a motorcycle on it?)

Ugh, as cute as my Mom thought I was, I have to disagree.

Rad Bike Club
In our neighborhood, riding your bike to everyone else's house was the prime form of transportation. And I'm not talking about the nice bikes we see at Wal-Mart today.  I'm talking about bad ass bikes with banana seats, steal frames, and sissy handle bars.  You could run over our bikes with a car and they would still be rideable.  My bike had the cool plastic spoke noise makers, a front zipper fanny pack, and fancy streamers that came out of the handle bars.  I'll say it again, BAD ASS bikes.  You add in some L.A. Gear shoes and you have yourself some unstoppable awesomeness.

Any child of the 80's knows the 1986 movie "Rad."  If you have never had the extreme privilege of watching this cult classic, I will sum it up for you.  Cru Jones wants to be a BMX bike racer and qualifies to race the Helltrack course against the famous BMX rider Bart.  This movie is epic and when your seven watching people do bike tricks, it may quality as one of the top movies EVER.  Queue the song "Send Me An Angel" and begin trick riding.

Well, every kid in our neighborhood watched this movie.  A lot.  I know we had the hijacked off back to back VCR copy.  I can still see the title written in my Dad's all capital letter handwriting.  So what do you do after watching BMX riders dance on their bikes to music for an hour and a half?  You try and do it,  on gravel!  That is always a great idea.  I can still remember attempting to get enough speed to be able to stand on the seat of my bike and coast the length of the gravel in front of my house.  I can also remember face planting because I hit the pot hole in the middle of the road.  Several of the kids in the neighborhood would cruise the strip of gravel in front of my house "trick" riding.  I think the closest we got to trick riding was popping wheelies, laying bike tire skid marks on the bridge down the road, and making ramps from pieces of wood.  We even attempted to make our own HellTrack.



























Random Tuesday Thoughts...

It has been almost a year and a half since we lost Dad.  I can honestly say, there is not a day that passes that I don't think of him in some way.  Especially, now that we live in the archery shop.  I often find myself wondering what in the world he would have thought about all this!
In that time, I have had a lot of time to soul search and time to figure myself out.  I am complicated in so many ways, but so simple in others.  So, through it all, I have started turing over a new leaf in my life.

What is it?  Just to be myself and understand that some people may not like that or understand that.  Also, to really listen to my heart and do what I know I'm supposed to do in life.  Has it been easy?  Nope.  Not one bit.  But, I will continue to do it because I know it is right.  In the past year, I have learned who is a true friend and who truly is there through thick and thin.  Unfortunately, that part sucks.  Some people in my life only need me when someone better isn't around or they need something from me.  I freaking hate that.  Either your in or out.  Love me or hate me, but you can't do both.

Tonight, I started my own YouTube channel.  Not a big deal.  I know several six-year-olds with their own channel.  ;)  But, for me, a beginning of sharing my love and my passion.  Now to memorize all those lines for the upcoming show...ugh.  My brain doesn't work like it used to.


Friday, February 7, 2014

Bob The Builder

For the past few months my family has been renovating my Dad's archery shop into our home.  Wow.  I REALLY wish I would have paid more attention in shop class.  ;)  I will be so glad when I NEVER have to cut drywall, paint, or decide which light fixture would look best in which room.


Things are going very well and we are super excited for the winter to end.  It is not fun attempting to work construction when it is -30 degrees.  I have become one with my Carhart bibs and Columbia boots.  My two favorite things.  :)  I would love to be in by Mia's birthday, but things are not looking good.

I have updated most people on my facebook page, but it you would like to see it and you are not on FB, please click  Photo's of Progress to see the album.  (I hope it works!)

Cleaning out the shop took several weeks of carefully packing up Dad's stuff and deciding what to keep and what not to keep.  My favorite find were his journals.  Dad used to talk about how we was writing down stories from his childhood and other "thoughts" he had about things.  I used to see him with these little notebooks, but never new what happened to them  I found them in one of the last file cabinets I cleaned out.  It is such a gift to have them.  My goal is to type them out and give them to family when I am finished.  Dad had some fun stories, great advice, and quirky humor.